Shibari Barbie 7/9/21 Shibari Barbie 7/9/21

Boundary Setting: Where is the Line?

The practice of boundary setting is a practice you may not be proficient in. I know I'm not. My boundaries are heavily influenced by the societal expectation that my needs and desires are secondary to someone else's.

Shibari Barbie 6/1/21 Shibari Barbie 6/1/21

The Sweetness of Self-Discovery

The Sweetness of Self-Discovery - A product review of sex toys, Cuddly Bird & G-spa from sextech company Osuga.

Shibari Barbie 2/27/21 Shibari Barbie 2/27/21

The Case for Compliments

No one needs compliments. It's not about need. I don't need anyone to tell me I'm beautiful to BELIEVE that I am. You are not 'obligated' to foster anyone's belief system with empty platitudes.

Shibari Barbie 2/14/21 Shibari Barbie 2/14/21

Commoditizing Kindness

Kindness is a precious commodity. Let's talk about the phenomenon of withholding kindness & compliments from another human. Many of my male friends tell me they withhold compliments & affection from women they are pursuing and/or interested in.

Shibari Barbie 1/23/21 Shibari Barbie 1/23/21

Small Tits & Fat Thighs

In the not-so-distant past, I had a partner who claimed to love me, yet consistently barraged me with negative reinforcement.

Shibari Barbie 1/6/21 Shibari Barbie 1/6/21

The Tale of Two Thighs

I had a man, a complete stranger, ask me the circumference of my thighs. While I believe he meant this to be complimentary, it is not. It is, however, laden with latent misogyny. My aim is to educate, so let's break this down.

Shibari Barbie 12/31/20 Shibari Barbie 12/31/20

An Expose on Expectations: Of Sages & Sorcery

Osé is a dual stimulator, while Filare is a clitoral stimulator. The type of clitoral stimulation both toys produce is wildly distinct. The clitoral mechanisms on Osé are internal and create a sucking sensation. Filare's mechanisms are external and stroke or thud against your clitoris upon applying pressure (operative phrase - apply pressure).

Shibari Barbie 10/30/20 Shibari Barbie 10/30/20

Through the Looking Glass

Photography is the art of creating the shadow of life. One plays God in a two-dimensional dollhouse where their every whim and wishful fancy moves, bends, and breaks their shadow puppets.

Shibari Barbie 9/29/20 Shibari Barbie 9/29/20

Sexual Independence is Female Liberation

This isn’t going to be your run of the mill review of a sex toy. This is a treatise on female sexuality and… squirting. Yes, a treatise on female ejaculate. No, it’s not mythology.