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Commoditizing Kindness
consent, sex positive, sex education, negative reinforcement, patriarchy, negging, sexism, understanding misogyny Shibari Barbie consent, sex positive, sex education, negative reinforcement, patriarchy, negging, sexism, understanding misogyny Shibari Barbie

Commoditizing Kindness

Kindness is a precious commodity. Let's talk about the phenomenon of withholding kindness & compliments from another human. Many of my male friends tell me they withhold compliments & affection from women they are pursuing and/or interested in.

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The Tale of Two Thighs
body positive, sex positive, sexual expression, education, patriarchy, understanding misogyny, sexism Shibari Barbie body positive, sex positive, sexual expression, education, patriarchy, understanding misogyny, sexism Shibari Barbie

The Tale of Two Thighs

I had a man, a complete stranger, ask me the circumference of my thighs. While I believe he meant this to be complimentary, it is not. It is, however, laden with latent misogyny. My aim is to educate, so let's break this down.

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